Being a Mom exposes you to the greatest extremes of emotions. This last week, it seems we ran the whole gamut. Last weekend was the last weekend before election day for my husbands re-election campaign, so we spent it knocking on doors, distributing his literature. Naturally, Alexandra was not happy we were leaving her at home so much and, even though she loves those we have watching her, she screamed and cried and hung onto my legs every time I tried to leave. As Im sure all other Moms know, this just breaks your heart. Of course, you also know they will be just fine as soon as you leave, but trying to pry yourself away from them is very upsetting!
Tuesday was election day, and there was a party that evening to wait for the results. Much to our surprise, she went right over to a little girl about twice her age, and they began to run all over the place hand-in-hand. Other little girls joined in, and Alexandra had a blast running all around not even caring where Mommy and Daddy were. When all the winning candidates (my husband included!) got on stage to say a few words, all the little girls sat right in front of the stage. Our Alexandra then started bossing all the other girls around telling them to lay down on the floor. When one would sit back up, she would tell them to lay back down again. They were all giggling the whole time. While I was a little embarrassed by the display, I also felt a bit of pride that my little 3 ½ year old had such confidence! When I talked to someone later, I confessed how I had been embarrassed by the fact she was being so bossy. However, she told me not to worry and that it was better to raise a leader than a follower. I truly appreciated those words and, after I thought about it for a while, had to agree. While her antics may be a little embarrassing now, I know she will make us proud with her confidence and persistence in the future.
Unfortunately, Friday she got very sick with a stomach bug. Surgeries aside, this was the sickest I think Ive ever seen her. You hate to see your children sick and wish you could just make it all better. However, I must admit that I didnt mind the extra snuggles and quiet time weve enjoyed over the last couple of days.
I hope all you Moms have had a wonderful Mothers Day!